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Rude Much?

Ask Chandara No.9

By Chandara Tep, Reporter

This week’s question comes from another anonymous person asking, “How do I tell my friend she’s being rude?”  The way I would handle it would depend on the level and type of rudeness this friend is giving.  If this friend of yours is unknowingly stating things that are rude, cut her off and stop her as she’s speaking.  If she doesn’t know she’s being rude, she most likely will not stop talking. If she is being directly rude to you or someone else, you have the obligation of setting her straight and addressing any tension that may arise.  If she is being rude intentionally, she is most likely trying to cause harm.  If this friend is doing some sort of inappropriate action that may be perceived as rude, assist her in what ever way you can to un-“rudify the act or stop her before she puts a dent in someone’s self-mage.  If this friend is quietly making rude comments (also known as low-key “throwing shade”) take her aside and tell her “what’s up”. There is one thing you should not do however, do not do nothing about it.  Rude acts can cause all sorts of problems, no matter their size.  You don’t need that type of negativity in your life!

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Chandara Tep, Reporter

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